The Origin of Marriage: From Eastern to Western Perspective
The divorce of one of Indonesia’s biggest influencers, along with many others, has led us to reflect on the fundamental origins of marriage. Alongside the compassion we feel for every partnership that lasts or ends, there remains a sense of acceptance and a question: when something begins with love, hope, and happiness, why does it sometimes end? Traditional Eastern Approach The Grandmaster Long ago, in most of Eastern societies, including Indonesia and broader Asia, marriage was traditionally seen as a strategic partnership , a union meant to strengthen families, stabilize social structures, and align long-term goals. This perspective resonates closely with Islamic traditions , where marriage is considered not only a personal relationship but primarily a structured bond with defined responsibilities , shared values , and a framework for long-term alliance. In traditional sense, to enable such a partnership strategically and ensure that both parties benefited , marriage was mos...
